It is so clear that in the world of fools, "social" skills means the ability for pleasing the ego of others. There is no place in that world where we wouldn't feel alone, because everywhere our mind wanders inside it, it's still only foolishness.
When you start touring with that other band, don't forget to tell them that they rock, little darling.
I heard that your husband is a therapist; I think he needs a postgraduate degree in transpersonal psychology.
Your deathstyle would concern me.